Catherine Seipp has some excellent points about 9/11, Islam and the KKK. I think she underestimates a few things. The insular nature of many Muslim communitites makes speaking out risky in terms of physical safety but also in terms of ostracism. It's not easy to take a stand against people who would cut your head off without a thought. If I were in Northern Ireland and I had kids, I'd probably keep my head down for fear of punishment beatings, or worse, kneecapping. No thanks. As Mel Gibson said in The Patriot: "I'm a parent. I haven't got the luxury of principles." That said, if a few brave souls do stand up to those in their midst, I believe we will see a watershed of change. The first steps are the hardest.
So....the autism thing
Since April is nearly over and it's autism awareness month, I suppose I should talk a bit about it. I guess the best way to start is to rehash the story of How I Got Here. My oldest was born in 1999. Healthy, happy and so on. One peculiar thing he did as an infant was to avoid eye contact. Our doctor assured us it was because he was so young and his eyesight was undeveloped and he was probably focusing on something in the background that was more interesting. Besides, babies don't recognize faces for a few months after birth. Only later did we find out that our doctor was an idiot. He was 16 mos. old when his little brother was born and he was walking and making wishes known by pulling me or my wife by the hand to whatever he wanted etc. He was fascinated with the wheels on toys. If you gave him a truck he'd turn it over and spin the wheels and smile. Only later would I find out this is a major warning sign. This was our first born and what the hell did I know? ...
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